Phrases Used By Gaslighters as per Psychology

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Gaslighters often use some specific phrases to distort reality to undermine others' confidence, causing self-doubt, confusion, and emotional dependence. Let's know those phrases.

1

You're being crazy

Gaslighters may try to make you question your mental stability by directly attacking your ability to think rationally.

2

You're overreacting

By labelling your reactions as exaggerated, gaslighters aim to invalidate your emotions and dismiss your concerns.

3

I was just joking

Gaslighters often excuse hurtful remarks by claiming they were only joking, making you question whether you're being too sensitive.

4

You made me do it

A gaslighter may shift blame onto you, trying to make you responsible for their actions and poor behavior.

5

If you loved me, you'd let me do what I want

Gaslighters may use love as a way to manipulate you into breaking your boundaries or feeling guilty.

6

I'm only telling you this because I love you

Gaslighters often hide behind love  as a reason to make harsh or abusive comments, complicating your ability to set boundaries.

7

This is all your fault

Gaslighters may try to hold you responsible for issues, even when they’re at fault or contributing to  the problem themselves.